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Elevate Your Game

Training is Hard. Regret is Harder.

by Joyce Ekworomadu on Jul 21, 2025

There’s a reason most people don’t put in extra work—because it’s hard. I’ve been there. After a long day, your body’s begging to rest, your mind’s drained, and nobody would blame you for calling it. But I’ve played in the WNBA—and how I got there wasn’t by just showing up to games or saying I wanted to play at the highest level.

I’ve coached middle schoolers who started with zero fundamentals and turned them into real hoopers. I’ve spent 15+ years at grassroots tournaments watching talent waste away because they thought they could just flip a switch when the lights came on.

Let me tell you from experience: Not training has a cost. And that cost shows up when the game starts and you’re not ready.

You feel it when your shot’s off. When your lungs are burning in the third quarter. When the coach calls your number and you hesitate instead of stepping up.

That moment? That’s when every skipped rep catches up to you.

The Offseason Is Where It Happens

Everyone wants to go D1, go pro, earn a scholarship, or just shine at their next tournament. But the truth is: games are won in the offseason. Not during warmups. Not under the lights. But in the quiet hours no one sees. I tell my players this all the time: The offseason is the only time you control everything.

  • How many shots you get up

  • How much stronger you get

  • How much film you watch

  • How locked in you are mentally

Once the season starts? It’s too late to wish you were ready.

Kobe Didn’t Wait

Let me remind you about one of the greatest to ever do it—Kobe Bryant. People talk about his game, his confidence, his killer instinct. But what always sticks with me? His work ethic. There’s a story about a teammate showing up early for Team USA workouts—thinking they were getting a jump—only to find Kobe already there, dripping sweat. He’d been working for hours. Kobe didn’t hope for greatness. He built it. When no one was watching.

He once said, “I didn’t want to be a guy that had potential. I wanted to be great.” That hit me—and it still does.

Final Thought

So yeah—it’s hard. It’s hard to wake up early. It’s hard to keep pushing when you’re sore, when you’re tired, when your friends are hanging out and you’re in the gym alone. But skipping the hard work? That’s how you end up with regret. Wishing you had one more season. One more practice. One more shot. You don’t get that back. If you’re reading this and you’re serious about your goals—show me in the offseason. Because I’ll always bet on the player who trains when nobody’s watching.