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Elevate Your Game

What’s Happening to Grassroots Basketball?

by Joyce Ekworomadu on Aug 4, 2025

I’ve been around this game my whole life. I’ve played professionally. I’ve coached for over 15 years at the grassroots level. I’ve worked with middle schoolers learning how to pivot, high schoolers chasing scholarships, and teams grinding just to be seen. I’ve seen basketball at every level—the beauty of it, the grind of it, and yes, the moments that make you shake your head. Lately, at some events, it feels like the culture is shifting.

What Are We Doing Out There?

Recently at a tournament, I watched emotions boil over. Parents shouting at referees like it was the NBA Finals. Coaches jawing at each other over a call. Players letting trash talk turn into shoving matches. These aren’t isolated moments—they’re becoming more common. And they’re happening in games meant for 12- to 16-year-olds still learning the sport.

Basketball Still Teaches Us Something

This game is supposed to teach lessons that go beyond basketball. When I was coming up, I learned how to communicate, manage my time, persevere through tough moments, lose with grace, and win with humility. I had coaches who modeled composure and parents who set the right example from the stands.

Those lessons still happen in gyms across the country. But when the adults lose their cool, the kids are watching—and learning. If they see chaos, they learn chaos. If they see respect, they learn respect.

We Can Reset the Culture

Grassroots basketball should always be a space that’s safe and positive for everyone:

  • A place where players compete hard, but also grow in confidence and discipline.

  • A place where coaches lead—by example as much as by strategy.

  • A place where parents cheer without becoming the show.

  • A place where officials feel respected so they can focus on the game.

That starts with everyone—coaches, parents, players—remembering the why behind this game.

Back to the Why

Grassroots basketball is about development, not drama. It’s about preparing kids for what’s next—on and off the court. So, the next time emotions start to rise, let’s be the ones who choose composure. Let’s model what we want these kids to take away from the game. Because when we protect the love for the game, everyone wins. The game deserves better—and so do the kids who play it.